rabu-hime~ ♥ ([info]yohietastic) wrote,
@ 2006-08-09 18:34:00
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This is Chiharu.

Why is everyone getting so involved in this?

This is Inu, Garnet and Yohie’s love life. It has nothing to do with me, it has nothing to do with you. It’s fine if Yohie or Inu is posting their side of the story, whatever, it’s their journal, it’s their life. But now everyone else is getting into the action and making assumptions about what happened based on biased opinions.

“Yeah. Um. I was sitting in the kitchen, eating cereal when Garnet and Inu broke up, so this automatically gives me a reason to butt into things”. UM. NO. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

It’s fine if you take a side, but don’t talking about how manipulating Yohie is, how stupid Garnet is, or how melodramatic Inu is in your own comments or entries. If you have a problem with it, deal with it yourself or talk to one of them face-to-face.

It’s fine if you comfort them, it’s fine if your support them. GREAT. WHATEVER. That makes you a good friend. BUT STOP THE CONSPIRING AND BACKSTABBING. If you hate Yohie because of this, fine, whatever, unfriend her, BUT DON’T STAY ON HER FLIST JUST SO YOU CAN LEAK THINGS TO INU.

If you badtalk any of them, YOU ARE THE ONE AT FAULT. YOU ARE THE ONE STARTING ANOTHER FIGHT, YOU ARE THE ONE MANIPLUTING THEM TO THINK THIS WAY.

Don’t you get it? Yohie and Inu aren’t manipluitive. WE ARE. By doing this we’re pouring salt on a wound and twisting things and trying to convey our own opinions onto them. WHEN WE TRY TO FIGHT FOR OUR FRIENDS, WE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE MAKING IT WORSE.

Inu doesn’t need to know about what Yohie thinks. But if you say things like “look at what that bitch Yohie wrote”, YOU’RE THE ONE MAKING IT WORSE. YOU’RE TWISTING THE TRUTH BY DOING THAT YOU’RE LOURING THEM ONE TO KEEP ON FIGHTING HATING AND HURTING.

Please. Stop the all the fighting. Let them come to some sort of stalemate on their own, even if they end up hating each other in the end, just be glad you’re not the one making it worse.



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[info]oversoul
2006-08-09 10:52 pm UTC (link)
Mm. You're right. In the end, it's their own situation.. we have no right to go shoving things in other people's mouths, and get more people involved. No right at all.

I realize it's really immature for people to do this. "Adding fuel to the fire", is another way of going at it, I guess.

Well, whatever. I can't say that I know Yohie, or Garnet well. But I know that I'm Inu's friend. And even though I've probably done this "adding salt to the wound", I'm going to stop. Just completly back off. You've made me realize that in the end, this isn't even our business. We're just supposed to be good friends and help COMFORT them. Not get revenge or anything.

So, thanks. Thanks for this post, really. I'm truly sorry to hear this get blown out of proportion. Even though it might not seem like my apologies are sincere, I'm sorry.

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[info]sleeves
2006-08-09 10:56 pm UTC (link)
sdkl THANK YOU, SIR. YOU'RE AWESOME. REALLY.

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[info]drivebywizard
2006-08-09 11:10 pm UTC (link)
THIS POST HAS BEEN APPROV'D.

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[info]nyarmar
2006-08-09 11:35 pm UTC (link)
AMEN. @_@;

In all honesty, I just want all the fighting to stop, and for all three of them to be happy.

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[info]anime_hime
2006-08-09 11:44 pm UTC (link)
*claps* x3 Very well said.

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[info]noroimustdie
2006-08-10 12:22 am UTC (link)
y thx good sir

I love you. :O Well. IalreadydidbeforewhenBrianashowedmepicturesfromtheconthingyouwentto. BUT ANYWAY.
Like. Less superficially. 8O
Maybe.
I can't remember what I was talking about, so I'll just stop now.

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[info]yoh_kun
2006-08-10 01:20 am UTC (link)
Thank you. Jesus Christ, I just want everything to end and for everyone to be happy. x_x

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[info]thelovelykiller
2006-08-10 01:38 am UTC (link)
I totally agree with this. Thank you~

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[info]dazdconfusd
2006-08-10 02:05 am UTC (link)
...Everyone else is agreeing.

SO I'M GONNA DISAGREE EVEN THOUGH I THINK YOU'RE RIGHT~

How does eating cereal when they break up not give you the right to butt into things~? >O

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[info]emotional_lover
2006-08-10 03:44 am UTC (link)
Wait, whoa, people are seriously whining and angsting on this subject?

Wow, that's just un-needed... If Yohie Bri is happy with Katie, then I'm all for it. If people can't except that they are happy, then why should they comment this journal? Ever hear that saying? "If you've got nothing nice to say, don't say anything" Yeah, that's what I'm implying. I stand by their side 120 percent, and if I'm needed for some reason I'll be here for them. But if you're not then please do us all a favor and SHUT THE HELL UP. "Yohie's manipulative"..Wtf, no.

And if you're upest about the break-up between Katie and Inu-- though it is none of my bussiness I'm going to state my oppinion-- Then you should be happy Katie isn't chained down in a relationship she'll probably regret and that Inu isn't living fake happiness. From what I've heard in the past journals is upsetting that people cannot be happy for two people that love each other. Hence why I'm ranting. Okay, I'm finished.

Just to be sure, I'm only stating my opinion because this is starting to annoy me. If you're going to bitch at me, all my IM services and emails are on my information. You can go get it yourselves. Thank you and goodnight. Bri I'm sorry if it upsets you that I decided to go on a rant about this but I'm just about fet up with it. I love you and I send my apologies.

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[info]yohietastic
2006-08-10 06:58 am UTC (link)
This sort of got me upset, but then I realized that there was nothing to get upset over. Thanks Treanna, your voice needed to be heard. Just make sure not to cause more drama from where you're standing, kay? ♥

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[info]emotional_lover
2006-08-10 11:11 pm UTC (link)
Well, I don't want anymore drama for you...Becuase I love you, I hate it when you're upset. ♥~

I won't. I promise.

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[info]ensnare
2006-08-10 04:19 am UTC (link)
Sweet. Everyone on LJ is getting involved. Where's the battlegrounds?

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[info]ensnare
2006-08-10 04:22 am UTC (link)

here

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[info]yohietastic
2006-08-10 06:52 am UTC (link)
LAKWUYFSHAKF -DIES- xDDDDD I AM SORRY I SHOULD NOT BE LAUGHING AT THIS.

Seriously though, I know this is probably getting really sickening to see over and over again. I won't post about this drama anymore unless it gets out of hand. Sorry.

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[info]ensnare
2006-08-10 06:55 am UTC (link)
I was laughing when I posted it. :D So why shouldn't you?

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[info]yohietastic
2006-08-10 08:49 am UTC (link)
Because I feel like I offend people sometimes. :< You're right. -hugs- But .. yeah. The drama's going to stop, or I might just take these tickets and use them myself. x( Sorry~

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